Can you relate to this scenario…
You’re sitting in front of your computer, staring at an empty screen. The deadline given to you to submit the article is fast approaching, and you’re still fighting to start putting words down when you’re supposed to already be at the editing stage.
As you sit there, struggling to get started, a strange feeling of inferiority creeps in – before your own eyes, you see yourself transforming from a confident expert into a self-conscious amateur.
The good thing?
- You’re not alone.
I used to dislike writing a lot. In fact, the thought of sitting down for hours and writing something that I didn’t even know if anyone would read was so demotivating.
Whenever I needed to write anything, I would procrastinate, thinking that avoiding the task would make it go away. Finally, the procrastination eventually led to lots of rushed writing during the 11th hour to meet my deadlines.
This usually resulted in substandard work.
However, my primary problem wasn’t about writing; it was about fear. I feared making mistakes, I feared that what I wrote would sound stupid to the reader, and most of all, I feared that I would not be worthy enough to be called a writer.
My Fear Was Causing Me Harm
So there I was, a guy with many years of experience who has won blogging awards and has been praised by major publications, afraid of sounding stupid.
It sounds preposterous, but my fear of producing mediocre content made writing a depressing experience for me.
I even tried compensating for my fears – I’d use big, irrelevant words trying to “prove” I understood what I was talking about. Unfortunately, all that did was make me sound like a fake jerk.
But then one day, I came across a particular piece of advice that changed everything for me. It was the best writing advice I’ve ever come across, and the best writing advice I can give to you right now:
- Write the way you speak.
What an emancipating idea!
That sounds so easy, right?
That single piece of advice helped me eliminate my fear of writing. No more using complex, unnecessary words to impress the reader. No more fear of being inauthentic. And most importantly, I didn’t feel the need to procrastinate anymore.
I could just be myself, relax, and write exactly what was on my mind.
Now, let me make something clear: Writing the way you speak does not mean you should write content that sucks.
It’s meant solely to help get rid of the mental barriers of procrastination and fear that prevent you from being a more productive and engaging writer.
Let me show you how to use the “write the way you speak methodology” to crush your insecurities and avoid sounding like a pretentious idiot…
1. Assume You’re Chatting With A Good Friend
Great writing is like an interaction between the writer and the reader. So whenever you’re writing anything, imagine yourself explaining the topic to a friend who’s sitting next to you. Think of the easiest way you would explain this topic to them.
During that conversation:
- How would you introduce that subject?
- What kinds of words would you use to make the topic clearer?
- What instances and real life examples would you give to make them understand your topic?
- How would you make your story more relatable?
- What questions might they ask?
- How would you wrap up that topic so they feel satisfied with the discussion?
Writing this way will enable you to write great copy that better engages your audience, is more interesting, more informative, and exists in a conversational tone.
Simply close your eyes and imagine yourself taking with your friend. As you do this, jot down the interaction. That’s all there is to it.
2. Relax And Be Yourself
By writing the way you speak, you will also naturally inject a little personality into your writing.
After all, you’re writing in your own voice using straightforward and easy to understand English, and in a tone that makes you sound more like a human than a textbook.
Now, mix that with a few well-placed personal and relevant stories, and you have the makings of an irresistible piece of copy.
Just remember to make it natural. Don’t say anything that isn’t true, relevant, or unnecessary to the conversation.
Stick to the topic at hand and let the words come naturally.
3. Use The Same Language You Use In Your Daily Life
If you write the way you speak, you’ll be more inspired to use regular, everyday words that you would usually use in general discussion.
This prevents you from sounding like a show off using obtuse and generally confusing language that makes your readers roll their eyes in disappointment.
Keep your writing very clear and simple without using artificially magnified language.
A good rule of thumb: If your average reader would reach for a dictionary to understand a word, then you need to change that word.
Here’s the thing, your readers don’t give a shit about your level in the English language (as long as it’s grammatically coherent).
You should not try to show off because all that will happen is you will embarrass yourself.
4. Throw Away The Rule Book And Just Write
If all the rules about writing styles, passive/active voice, punctuation, and proper grammar are contributing to your insecurities about writing, throw away the “rule book” for a while, and just write.
Some people try to be very meticulous about the whole writing process, and they end up very carefully selecting each word as they craft a piece of content. This results in a very unnatural tone and an overall piece that comes across as too boring and too technical.
Just forget about everything you know about “how to write well”. Focus more on writing down the major points of your idea in your first draft, and don’t worry about any other thing right now.
When you’re done doing that, you can revisit what you wrote and edit the heck out of it.
The editing stage is where you need to focus on the nuts and bolts of the piece. Notice any errors? Is there anything that could be changed to add more clarity? I guarantee there are some things that need editing, and here is where you should do that. Make sure everything is clear, crisp, and free of errors.
Once you’ve made those corrections, abandon the article and look at it again the next day with fresh eyes. You will probably see some things that need to be re-edited. Now is the time to go and do that.
5. Read It Out Aloud
One of the best editing strategies is reading your writing out loud.
When you’re doing this, every awkward sentence and piece of bad grammar will become apparent. When you “write the way you speak”, your words should sound just as natural coming out as they did going in.
As you read your writings out loud, pay close attention to those places that seem to trip you up and leave you a bit confused — some extra attention for those spots is required.
Here’s the rule: If a particular sentence or paragraph doesn’t sound well on your ear, you need to rewrite it until it flows properly.
Write The Way You Speak And Overcome Writing Insecurities
For you to become an excellent and proficient writer, you must first conquer your fear of screwing up or sounding stupid. Just learn to write the way you speak, and you’ll be able to dish out your first draft effortlessly.
Once you get used to that, you’ll find that you’re actually a great writer and you’ll be able to get more writing done quickly without feeling like a fraud.
This same writing process has worked for me for many years, and I’m convinced it’ll equally work for you if you practice it.
Just write the way you speak and the piece becomes a conversation instead of a lecture.
So instead of having a handful of students listening to a professor talk about something boring, you now have a handful of friends who feel like they’re involved in the conversation.
This is how we create rapport and build trust with an audience.
And when those two things come, many more good things come, too!
What do you think about this writing technique? Have you tried it before? Have you noticed any difference in engagement? Let me hear your thoughts in the comments below!
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thanks for the article harsh,which is like exactly written for me(newbie to writing) . suggest me,how worth it is ? about we recruit some freelancer to transformer our ideas (50 words) to 1000 words for our blogs.
because i don’t have time to write for my blogs but i have money to spend for some one to write article about my ideas.
@Hamza
You can do that. You can hire writers from contentmart: https://www.shoutmeloud.com/contentmart-review.html
However, blogging is more fun and rewarding when you also do your writing. Else, you might end up making money (Running it as a business) but will not be able to enjoy the best part of blogging.
Yes, bro Harsh. You wrote this article very detail with the effective information that really needs for a newbie or even those writers who always feel very uneasy while writing their draft of an article/ a blog post!
So, I think, and also believe if someone reads this post until the end, then he/she might improve his/her writing skills than he/she is now today!
By the way, bro, I always want to have this type of post from you because nowadays, I am also trying to master this crazy thing (writing skills)! Ask me, bro, why?
The only reason is I want to make myself as a second Harsh from the India, and for this, the second shoutmeloud already started to walk on the web.
Bro, I was born in India (West Bangle) but unfortunately I grew up in the foreign country, and my wish is come back to my own country where my parents (both father & mother) are sleeping forever.
Thank you, bro
Hi Harsh,
Great tips and I so agree with you about just being yourself. When I first started my blog, I found myself trying to sound so professional whenever I wrote tutorials.
It was hard to write a tutorial because I put so much pressure on myself. Since I’ve started relaxing and just writing without the pressure.
It’s much more fun writing. As a blogger, we just have to be ourselves and not try to be like anyone else.
Thanks for sharing this, I know that it will help so many people get more done on their blogs.
Have a great day 🙂
Susan
Hello Harsh,
One of the finest article as I have ever seen. I am a beginner in writing I have to think more while writing. I use the grammerly extension for auto correction. Is it okay with the free version or I have to buy paid the monthly subscription of it for more better results?
Please reply with your valuable suggestion.
Thank you
Amit Mishra
Tryootech
@Amit
I have been using their pro version from past one year and I recommend the same.
Hey Harsh,
Great post.
Sometimes I consider you a mind reader because I am thinking of something and…….BOOM
There is your article.
All the techniques you mentioned are great but I will start with the fifth one first.
Thanks again for sharing Harsh! Keep up the great work 🙂
Hi Harsh,
I feel that whenever I go to write my article I feel very inappropriate about my writings. Well, this post helps me to overcome this problem. Next time, I will keep in mind about it.
Thank you
I am a new blogger and started following your blog since 2015. I recently started my own blog http://www.mindbloggers. club and used you techniques to get more traffics and SEO.
I am also not good in writing blog post but people are liking my posts. I keep writing and updating the previous post and now a days I am getting nice traffic.
Once again Thanks for sharing the knowledge.
Writing how you speak was a game changer for me Harsh. Even if folks thought I was weird LOL.
I write how I speak. Definitely makes grammar purists want to vomit 😉 but my eBook How to Find Your Writing Voice is the #1 rated eBook on Amazon in its category. 49 reviews, all 5 stars. I give people permission to write how they speak thru the eBook and thru all I do online. I love it. Being a helpful blogger who is not good at writing 😉
Ryan
I exactly follow the rule you said, write what you speak. I try to write the way even a beginner can understand, in a simple language. I had few friends who used to write as if they wanted to prove something like they excel in language English to be precise. And when I used to read them, I could not handle it for more than a paragraph. Complex words are great to show your skills but not everyone is going to understand you.
Great article. There is one point that i liked most and that is what i do usually whenever i write a blog post.
That is point 4. “Through away the book of rules”. I too didn’t care much about the rules. i write like i am talking to someone.
I’ve been blogging for almost a year now with almost ~ 100 published posts. And all I can say is that your advices are straight to the point. I love writing as if I’m chatting with a close friend. This makes the process a lot easier and relaxing.
I’m not a native english speaker though but I agree that quality of writing is getting better and better the more I write. It’s all about persistence and dedication.
Thanks for the awesome post & tips
“Write the way you speak” it’s a great idea, I will surely use this tips for my blog, it will help me a lot because I can write fearlessly by this way and without fear I can write by heart
I was not a good writer (improved alot now) too.
I started writing blogs related to what I am doing (photography/filmmaking)
Keeping it simple helped me alot.
Thanks for the article harsh
It will motivate people 🙂
Hi Harsh,
“Write the way you speak” is my motto. So much so that I do use Google Docs whereby I talk and it writes for me! Easy peasy hugh? I do tend to ramble on but at least I can edit the entire post when I’m done.
I also like the idea of talking to a friend. Because in the end, that is what we are doing. We are writing to our readers who are friends of ours….some loyal that won’t miss a post… and it takes pressure off.
Great stuff!
-Donna
Hey Donna,
How do you do that!!
Is that something inside Google Doc we are missing – How do you set Google Docs up to do this?
Robert.
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Hi Robert,
Just open a new Google Docs document and go to Tools. Find the microphone, click and talk 🙂
This is what I was looking for,
It all happens with me, don’t know why, will sure implement this to improve my writing skills.
Thank you Harsh ji for sharing this great tips.
Hi Harsh,
Great Article as usual. I think it is beneficial to me to decrease my writing time.
When I am writing as truth, I’ve feared about my articles that anyone finds this helpful or not.
And for another side, Fear is also beneficial that tells me to do more research on the topic to make more Quality content article.
Thank you for sharing your experience which is helpful to newbies!
Sir
This is one of the best article I have ever read about how to conquer your fear before start writing anything and especially the strategy like writing the ”way you speak” this is simply great idea thanks for it.
But sir I have one question which I asked you through comment on your income report of July 2017 but you haven’t replied me its ok but will you please answer that question here my question is,
when you start blogging have you started it alone or you have a team with you to do the same? and if your answer is yes then will you please tell me what things one should consider before heading up to blogging with a team?
This question is important for me because it feels like whether I will able to bear the load of handling all the work single handily or not or do I require a team.
@Deval
When I started in 2008, I was working alone for 2 years. Then I hired a designer/developer in November 2009 (Almost after a year) who used to help me with getting design/development changes of ShoutMeLoud and one more blog WPfreesetup (WPSutra now). In the first quarter of 2010 I acquired a tech blog callingAllGeeks as by then ShoutMeLoud shifted from being tech only to more about blogging and digital marketing. In the 2nd half of 2010, Siddarth Suvarna joined the CallingAllGeeks writing as a full-time position. This is how I started hiring and at this time (Oct 2017) we have 4 full-time members and about 4-5 part-time.
Hi Harsh,
Good Information for blogger. Grammarly helps me to improve my writing skill. Be Yourself is a most important part of blog post.
Thanks for Sharing this information.
Amazed content. Really helpful for the beginners bloggers. Focus more on writing down the major points of your idea in your first draft and then evaluate it. Thanks for the motivation.
Hello Harsh,
In my earlier days Of Blogging, I was also worry about my grammar and punctuation. After that I have started practicing writing 1000 words daily and its really helps me to improve my writing skills and now I am writing article without any worries. I hope that these tips you have mentioned here will definitely help newbies to craft a informative blog posts. Great Insights.
Enjoy your day 🙂
Vishwajeet