5 Ways Blogging Is Making Me A Better Person


My blog is my anchor point. It’s like when mothers get worried about their bachelor sons and say:

  • Let’s get him married now. The bad habits will disappear once he has responsibility.””

Yes, I admit it. Without my blog, I’m a pod without an engine floating in outer space. I’d have no discipline and no routine, and my life would be completely topsy-turvy if it weren’t for my blog.

Over time, I’ve learned that it is one thing to have a blog, and it’s another thing to own a blog.

Owning a blog, akin to having a garden, is a beautiful meditative art. It helps you connect with yourself. You watch something grow before your eyes. You tend to it each day and wait (not desperately, but expectantly) for that flower to appear. When it does, you don’t scream with joy. You just feel a happy, contented smile come over your face.

For someone like me, running a blog isn’t just about realizing my dreams. It’s not just about sharing travel stories with those who care to read them. It’s not just an attempt to keep traveling for the rest of my life and call it a ‘career’. My blog is a way to find my way back to orbit and stay connected. It helps me live a happy life.

It might seem crazy, but here are five ways in which my blog is making me a better person by teaching me great life lessons.

5 Life Lessons Learned From Blogging

1. Perseverance

Six months of research and execution has helped me understand the potential of blogging. The magnitude is only just dawning on me. The sky is really the limit.

I can take this blogging thing anywhere; make it as big as I can dream. The only thing that’s required of me is to keep at it.

Both dreaming and doing.

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What this teaches me about life:

Even though our dreams can seem massive and scary, and our mortal selves too fragile, it’s not that bad. All we need to do is take it one day at a time and with baby steps. Every little action toward the right direction will eventually add up. Nothing goes to waste.

2. Determination

To keep giving and giving and not getting anything back in return can be a bummer. It’s demotivating, frustrating, and leads to a lot of self-doubting.

To build up a blog from scratch, to create great content, to create a user-friendly interface for your readers to be able to navigate through your content better, AND to act as your blog’s PR agent by taking what you created out into the world – that’s a lot of work.

And as far as I know, our minds are our biggest enemies. We pull ourselves down when the going gets tough. But the biggest favor I can do for myself and my blog is to push through ‘just another day’.

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What this teaches me about life:

The only meaningful thing in life is what I choose to do with my time. If I give up, then I have wasted all the time I had invested in the first place. That’s the worst. That means I’d have to go back to step one and start all over again. Things become meaningful only when you give them meaning.

3. Love Yourself

Six months of blogging has made me feel that it doesn’t matter if the grass is greener on the other side. It doesn’t even matter if there is grass on the other side. Maybe there’s ice cream. Who knows?

All I care about is the blog I started and the hard work I have been putting into it. My blog is teaching me how to love what I do. And that’s the best thing to learn because that also means that I am learning to respect my dreams and am ready to do all that needs to be done.

Love Yourself
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What this teaches me about life:

There’s this perpetual sense of curiosity. We ask questions like, “Am I getting the best I could be getting right now?” And, “What’s my neighbor doing?” It’s because we love ourselves and we feel we deserve the best the world has to offer. But greed makes us stop loving what we have, and we focus on what others have instead. The ideal way is to remember that the best comes when you make something of any opportunity.

4. Patience

Anyone who blogs professionally knows that this isn’t some kind of shortcut to success or money.

Blogging requires years of dedicated hard work. And the more I realize this, the more patient and calm I find myself becoming. Blogging has made me realize that there’s enough time for everything if you have patience.

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What this teaches me about life:

 I’ve learned that rushing through anything is a waste of time. Even in dire situations where there is a serious dearth of time, a patient mind achieves way more than a chaotic and rushed one. So just breathe. Relax. Take it easy. There’s enough time in life for work, for chilling, for spending time with friends and family, and for success. You’ve just got to spread it all out.

5. Commitment

In sickness and in health, my blog is a piece of me.

I dreamed it up, and I started it.

If I don’t post, no one else will.

This is a part of the world that was born out of me, and it will die if I don’t stand by it.

Of course, my endeavors might not be up to everyone’s expectations. Some people might find it silly. Some might think it’s a waste of time. Well, I have two choices. I can agree with them and give up on what I started, or I can continue to believe in my ideas and carry on doing what I do because I enjoy doing it.

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What this teaches me about life:

Commitment is simply the courage to stand by what you believe in. There will be contradictory voices all around you. Sometimes you will find your inner voice telling you all kinds of negative things. But that’s really sad. You have to learn how to enjoy a party alone before you can invite others to it.

Learning Through Blogging

I am grateful that I took those first steps down this path. Being a blogger has taught me a lot about myself and my life.

I’ve learned to be true to myself, and I’ve learned to always stay curious.

Above all, I’ve learned that life is the best teacher.

In what ways has blogging made you a better person? Let me know in the comments below!

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Travel. Think. Narrate. Repeat. I'm a travel storyteller from India. Visit neetolemitra.com for in-depth plunges into destinations. I focus on long term travel. I loiter about the streets of my country on a budget and with a backpack. I eat what locals eat. I try to pick up languages and most importantly, I lurk about with a keen eye collecting stories I can share with all of you. So come join me :)

21 thoughts on “5 Ways Blogging Is Making Me A Better Person”

  1. Emenike Emmanuel

    Yes. I can relate to all you said you learnt through blogging. Blogging is something that has opened me up to a new world I never knew were in existence.

    I learnt new skills, met new people and began to make money from things no one has ever sat me down to teach me just because I started blogging. Sometimes I try to imagine what life would have been like if I never started a blog to share what I love talking about.

    I first started with news blog, sharing articles from almost every niche. What hastened my failure on that blog was when Google AdSense rejected my account. Then it was dawn on me to talk about something I like, and that’s business. Here am I doing well.

    I would have abandoned blogging entirely but patience and determination I learnt through blogging kept me going. That’s why I’m here typing today.

    Emenike Emmanuel

  2. Rasesh Koirala

    Can anyone help to customize comment box in my blog ?

  3. Anuradha Chawla


    Totally relating to all of this 🙂 Blogging as really pulled me out of my shell – it’s amazing how much you can grow just by cultivating a site!

  4. Shabir Hussain

    Enjoyed reading this article right from the start till the end. nice one,.
    in fact perseverance, determination, commitment are the main elements to succeed in the world of blogging. so every body should learn these lessons during the blogging journey.

  5. Cynthia

    Great post! When I published my first post in May 2016, I looked at it as a potential additional stream of income; however, it has grown into so much more. It is not always easy, especially since I work full-time, but is is so rewarding and I am fully committed to it. I am learning WordPress in my spare time and developing a new skill. I now look at each new post as an opportunity to help others. Point #5 especially speaks to me when you write, “I dreamed it up, and I started it. “If I don’t post, no one else will. This is a part of the world that was born out of me, and it will die if I don’t stand by it.” I understand that sentiment. Success to you. Keep up the great work!

  6. Nicky

    Well said. Every blogger needs all the 5 . Last but not the least commitment decides whether you stay in blogging field or not !

  7. Larry Frank

    This is a wonderful article you’ve got here. Blogging is one thing that inspires me, and I can agree with all that you have said here.
    Thanks for sharing and do have a wonderful day ahead.

  8. Chesatochi

    Your story is very inspiring about what your blogger life has brought into your life. The reading of this post inspiring me with my own vision of the niche blog I just started at the beginning of December.


  9. LivingUnplanned

    Thanks everyone who commented here. I feel so excited to see my experience strike a familiar chord with you. I just derived a ton of courage from these comments and I wish you all the luck for your endeavours

  10. Jugnu

    We Learn Lots of Things From Your Blog Thanks for Sharing such a Great information

  11. Sam

    Great post! I would agree that blogging has given me patience. I also like to think it’s made me a stronger writer.

  12. Zaffar Ali

    Great post loved it, especially the Patience part! Although I am new to blogging I think that patience is key for successful blogger!

  13. aditi

    Great combination of blogging and lesson of life

  14. sanvinair1

    Blogging has made me habitual of reading. Now , I am aware of all the happenings in the work. That is a real chnage in my life.

  15. Ugyen Dorji

    Dear Author,
    Today every blogger blogs for the sake of earning and most blogs are based on earning online related. But it was great and loved your post for taking the taste of blogging to the new recipe. And I totally agree on the points you made and every blogger should realize that today… Blog to make the better person.
    Wonderful article.

  16. pranita deshpande

    Thanks , You have written totally my experience.

  17. Vinit Patil

    Very pleased that I got to read this article.

    What you said is really true, because even I have started a blog from scratch on 25 Nov, 2016.

    I am yet able to get much traffic on my blog but I am sure that I will get traffic on my blog within the coming year of 2017

    Gr8 Artcle

  18. Vishwajeet Kumar

    Brilliant Post, I also Confess that Blogging teaches a lot of lessons. Especially for our day to day life. Blogging teaches us how to get determined for our work, How to become patient and focus on your targets. I am also doing Blogging and also feels proud of it.

  19. Karan Lugani

    Blogging is all about patience, determination and consistency. It takes time and as you mentioned, it’s like a relationship you nurture daily. After a certain time, it becomes your life.

  20. Ravi Chahar

    Every time I write something, I feel happy and motivated. Blogging is like something uncurable.

    You will learn the hard ways to accomplish your tasks. More you write, more you embrace your skills.

    Blogging is certain type of education which can be turned into your profession.


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