I have already informed you about importance of commenting and how to get free backlinks. How often I get comments here at Shoutmeloud in which self promotion links are added and where people add a note “I hope you will accept my link with this comment”.
One of the first thing, which strike into my mind seeing such notes, such commentators are kind of sure their comment will not get approved. Though for such commentators , its not always the same. Any blogger including me will love to see useful and informative link with comments only if,
If the comment is being added as a reason to add values instead of self promotion or for traffic drive. There are many ways to judge this, and I’m sure being a blogger I don’t need to tell you about this.
Usually when a new commentator join any blog,they have two approach. Participation or self promotion. Bloggers love participation and may let self promotion in if the the commentator is participating in a way or other. Imagine a new commentator joined your blog, added 10 comments on 10 different posts, with 5 self promotion links in those 1o comments. Do you intend to accept such comments?
Attitude again plays a great role while commenting. I have seen this by the me and some of my blogger friends accept comments. If some one is being very offensive or while replying to other comments being very attacking, its a negative approach and it hurts the other feelings. While commenting or replying to any one comments, make sure you respect every one views. Your views will be appreciated only if you present them in the best possible way.
How to get your link comments approved by other blogger?
This is quite tricky and may or may not work, but IMO this will work in many cases. Understand the meaning of comment form in a post, it does not mean , you need to reply using nice post or great post. Add values to the post by giving your own view. If you feel very much connected write a detailed comment or a nice 2-3 line comment will do the needful. Where ever required, add a link to different domains, which add more value to post ideas. This way you will become a legit commentator and any blogger will appreciate your comments and links embedded within it.
I may be wrong here, but this is what I have learned from my experience in part one year. I will love to know your review and opinion on the same. Will you accept all the self promotion link added by your commentator, or what kind of criteria you have set to accept such comments?
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